May Day Wedding = May Pole?
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This weekend I went to my grandparents house to celebrate Easter and my uncle’s birthday. I found out that my grandma was upset that I hadn’t invited her to any bridal expos yet. I tried to explain that those were a very bad idea for her. Besides the fact that there is a ton of walking, and she is not healthy enough to make it through the whole place, she doesn’t understand how aggressive brides are. Bringing her would be a nightmare. Regardless, she doesn’t understand and is feeling left out (hence my original suggestion of not telling her I’m getting married until a week before- I hate this kind of drama).
She had MANY suggestions- white gloves opera gloves (no!), keeping the fact that I want to wear cowboy boots or sneakers a secret (no!), veil over my face (no!), various random family members being included in the bridal party (no!), the style of the flower girl dresses (no!), and my personal favorite- a May Pole (since the wedding will be on May 1st)!
I’m not saying this isn’t a cute idea for some weddings…but I’m kind of a modern/contemporary girl and that just seems a little…well…pagan!!!
Here’s the thing, I wouldn’t be 100% opposed to it if it were outside, and only meant to entertain the kids. However, I know exactly how this will go down. ”Bre/Eric, go stand by the May Pole so I can take a picture.” NOPE, not happenin!
So, I asked some people what they thought and got some good responses. The one I liked most was a maypole/tether ball pole. Every time my grandma asks me for a picture by the may pole, she’ll have to play me for it.
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This prompted another idea. Instead of tossing the bouquet, I am now envisioning a dodge ball elimination to find the next single gal to get married. Perfect!
Even better- one of my bridesmaids responded: ”Ribbons? Ribbons are for sissies!” And THAT is why she’s a bridesmaid ladies and gentlemen!
