A Themed Wedding Can Be So Much Fun

   There are all kinds and styles of wedding ceremonies and receptions today. You don’t have to stick to tradition unless you want to.  Brides today have options for their planning. You can go with seasonal, storybook, ethnic and even western frontier. Another popular type of wedding is the destination wedding.  This requires picking a location to have your ceremony and reception in a wildly fun place like Las Vegas, or a beautiful tropic ceremony in the Bahamas, or maybe even a western  wedding in the great state of Texas.  Where ever your heart desires.  You, your groom and a small group of friends travel to the location  to celebrate your union, and the best part is, if you wish, you can have your honeymoon there too.  A themed wedding is at the top of the list for couples getting married today. 

   You could have a very beautiful winter wonderland ceremony and reception, with all the beauty of a white Christmas. With snowmen decorations and snow globe favors, this can be one of the most gorgeous of seasons to marry.  A popular summer ceremony is the beach wedding.  Sun, surf and seafood with a great beach party reception. Or maybe you like the fall the best, with all the fabulous autumn colors, pumpkins, gourds and scattered leaves. Spring is the perfect time for a lovely garden ceremony and reception.  With all the flowers blooming and the fresh smell of a gorgeous spring day.  Whatever your choice of themes are, you can find just about any wedding supplies and accessories to go along with it.

   Our ancestors came from Ireland, so my husband and I had a good old fashioned Irish wedding. We had everything from the upside down horseshoe made of fabric and worn on the brides wrist to claddagh wedding rings. After the ceremony we all went to an Irish pub for the reception and danced to some wonderful Irish tunes. The wedding cake was like a scumptious fruit cake with layers piled high and frosted with a white Irish icing. But the top layer of the wedding cake is an Irish whiskey cake and is saved for the christening of your first born. You also save a slice for your anniversary. There is a lot of customs to an Irish wedding and reception.  It was a fantastic celebration. We rented the pub for the night and I had all the tables set up in Irish décor, even our champagne glasses had the print of the claddagh on them. I also had the perfect Irish themed wedding favors for every guest. That was quite a night.

   My sister went for a storybook wedding. She always had a thing for the Cinderella and Prince Charming fable, now she had her chance to live it, if only for one night. It was really beautiful. She had everything in a fairy tale, from decorations to a castle cake topper. She found some exquisite themed party favors too. I’m telling you, you can do just about anything you want when planning a wedding and reception.  It’s your special day, so why not have it the way you want it? This is your chance to live out your long time fantasy and have the dream wedding you talked about as a young girl.

   When you can find all the wedding accessories and reception supplies to have your perfect ceremony and reception party, why not go for it. This is a memory you’re making to last the rest of your lives.  Why not make it all it can be?

I Almost Forgot To Buy An Extra Wedding Garter

   I had a lot of help getting ready for this wedding and reception, thank goodness.

I never realized how much there is to do and to take care of.  Especially all the shopping. Don’t get me wrong, I love to shop, but wow! There’s just so much to consider. Starting with finding the church for the ceremony and a place to hold the reception. Then you’ve got the invitations and guest list, seating arrangements, food and refreshments. It can all be very overwhelming.

   Just the brides ensemble alone includes everything from a dress to a wedding garter. There is just so much to do, I’m so grateful for my mom, she helped me out so much with all the little and big details.  I wasn’t even sure how to get started on all of this. But thanks to mom, things are coming together. We got all the answers from our invitations, and everyone except two people said they will be able to make it. So that brings the total of guests down to 134. Now we had to plan the menu and pick out my wedding cake and topper and everything else that goes with the reception tables. The centerpieces, silverware, glassware and wedding favors for each guest.

   My mom bought us a beautiful wedding album of satin with our monogram and the date of our wedding on the cover.  That was so sweet and thoughtful. It really is lovely. I didn’t know at the time, but my mom was not only helping me to plan my wedding and reception, but at the same time she was helping my fiance make the arrangements for our honeymoon too. I don’t know where she finds the time. She even took time out of her day to help me go shopping for wedding garters and shoes. I think I’d be lost without her. She really is a life saver.

   When we were shopping for garters, my mom was surprised at all the different styles and colors you were allowed to wear at weddings today.  In her day, white or cream color was the norm.  Now you can get black, red, blue and other colors as well as lacey or leathery. I think my mom was really turned off by the leather garter. She still likes the frilly, girly look. I also found a gorgeous wedding garter belt I thought it would be the perfect thing to take along on my honeymoon. In fact, I picked out two, a red one and a black one. But for my wedding I settled for a very lacey white garter, and that seemed to please my mom very much. As we were getting ready to leave my mom wanted to know where my other garter was.  I didn’t know what she was talking about, I only bought one for the wedding. She reminded me of the garter toss, and that I should have an extra for throwing, and the one to keep.  I totally had forgotten about throwing the garter to the bachelors. So I had to pick out another one. I picked out a very sexy black garter, which I decided to keep for me, and let my fiance throw the white one instead.  I really like the black one.

   Well, everything was a success, we were married, had a fantastic reception with all of our friends and family. I threw my bouquet, he threw my garter and the party began, and lasted very late as I understand.  We weren’t there too long, we rushed to the airport to start on our wonderful honeymoon.  Thanks Mom!

She Helped Me With Some Great New Wedding Suggestions

   My sister knows I’m not really much on tradition. I’m kinda the wild child in the family and I’ve always wanted everything to be different or sometimes even the opposite of everyone else.  I must admit, sometimes it drove my mom and dad a little crazy. They weren’t always sure how to take me. But thank goodness my sister did.  That’s why she knew there was no way I was going for a traditional old fashioned wedding and reception. I wanted something a little more my style. So she helped me find new wedding ideas.

   We looked in some bridal shoppes and checked out wedding books, but they all seemed to give the same message: “Tradition” So she suggested we go online and see what kinds of weddings and receptions other people have come up with.  There were lots of theme weddings and I kinda liked that idea, because that sorta leaves my options open.          

There are a lot of different themed wedding ideas to consider. There is the color scheme theme, which I’m not to crazy about, and seasonal themes, like winter wonderland décor, or a garden wedding ( no way ) and a super beach wedding and reception party, which I would consider.  But I really liked the destination wedding and reception idea. I was thinking Vegas would be a great place for a wedding, and right afterwards we could start our honeymoon there too.

   So I kept Vegas open as a good option. Then there was the storybook wedding, but, I’m not into all the frills and girly lacey things, and I outgrew fairy tales a long time ago. The western frontier one sounded pretty awesome.  We could have a huge barbecue on a ranch somewhere for my reception. There were even outfits for the bride and groom that depict a country western motif, with hats and cowboys boots and everything. They’ve even got new favors perfect for a western celebration.  That sounds really wild. That’s a suggestion I could live with. I kept picturing bales of hay stacked all around for the reception, with maybe barbecued ribs on the pit and maybe we could even have a rustic old wagon for a hayride. The more I thought about it, the more I liked it.

   There were also ethnic wedding ceremonies and receptions like a beautiful Asian wedding with lanterns and all the gorgeous accessories of the orient.  Those were really awesome too.

   There were some really nice accessories for an Irish ceremony and reception with all kinds of items in a beautiful Irish motif. There is just all kinds of choices, but I think I’ll go with the western frontier wedding. I really like that one a lot, and decoration should be pretty easy. The hardest part may be finding a location to have this celebration, but I’m sure there are places we can find that will be appropriate.  I’m really excited about this idea. All I have to do is convince my fiance, but I think he’ll be pretty cool about it.

   I had my sister help me start planning for my western wedding.  We’ve found so many awesome decorations and accessories online.  I also called a few places and have found the perfect location. I was so excited I called my fiance and work and told him all about it.  Surprisingly enough he actually liked the idea. So we are officially having a western wedding ceremony, and a barbecue and an old fashioned hoe down at our reception. So now I’m shopping for everything I need, from invitations to new party favors . I’m so glad my sister came up with all these cool suggestions.

Flower Girl Baskets Of Satin And Lace

   

With all that you have to plan for your wedding and reception, from your gown and accessories to your maid of honor and bridesmaid dresses, there is also your adorable ring bearer and sweet little flower girl to take care of. They also require attire and accessories.  Along with his little tux and shiny new shoes, you need to find just the right ring bearer pillow for him to carry your lovely rings to the altar. There are several choices of ring bearer pillows, beautifully designed, and many are styled to go with any particular theme you may have chosen for your ceremony. You can even find pillows for ethnic weddings like, a fantastic Irish ceremony or beautiful Asian style wedding.  There are also ring pillows for seasonal weddings, western frontier and traditional ceremonies.

             

            For your little flower girl, you can choose from a selection of exquisite flower girl baskets made of satin and lace or chiffon, in all different colors. You can find baskets that will go with just about any color scheme you desire. Choose from bold colors like rich, deep claret to a soft chocolate brown with strawberry pink satin.  Or maybe you would prefer a lovely, delicate white ivory or champagne.

 

      Whether you are planning a certain color scheme or maybe a themed ceremony, there are so many styles of flower baskets available to choose from. There are some lovely wedding flower girl baskets for beach weddings, fairy tale, western and even the perfect basket for an elegant Celtic wedding ceremony. Looking for a sophisticated formal look to your wedding?  There are some awesome black and white flower baskets that will go very well with formal attire and give that extra spark of elegance and add that style of sophistication to your wedding party. As your flower girl enters the room, all eyes will be on her, so you want everything to be as perfect for her as it is for you, and there are so many choices of baskets for you to choose from.  You can go from bold and beautiful to soft and lacey. With the selection of baskets for the flower girl, there are just so many styles to consider. Not only can you find them with rhinestones and pearls, but bows and lace, and lovely chiffon. They also come in different shapes as well as colors and designs. You can have the oval, round and even square basket with all the trimmings.  For a few moments, your flower girl will be the center of attention, so it’s also a good idea to make sure her dress compliments yours and those of the bridesmaids. You want the wedding party to coordinate with your colors and theme for your ceremony.

   

    You should also check with the church or the person in charge of the wedding site to make sure you can use flower petals in your ceremony, some places do not allow the throwing of real flowers.  There are some suggestions that may be suitable for you, if this is the case.  Some brides fill the flower girls baskets with roses and have them pass one to each person as they walk down the aisle. There are also some wedding sites that will allow silk flower petals to be tossed, and there are also suggestions of bells, bubbles, or just carrying the baskets full of beautiful flowers as you will carry your bouquet. But whatever you decide to do, just remember how important your little flower girl is to your special day, and how special this day is to her too.